You are right, that is confusing. I guess that is one consequence of calling the digital states on/off instead of 0/1 or low/high.
I tested it here and it worked how you are asking. I also had another user try this method and it worked for him. As long as the failsafe isn't set to "on" this should work.
- Relay board in channel 1
- Channel 1 digital output set to off (do this through the module settings page)
- Digital output pulse widget, Current State Pulse Type, 1000ms
- 1k resistor pins 3 (DO) and 4 (GND) of the relay connector
When I do this and power cycle it, the relay doesn't click at all.
I'm trying to think of ways you could go wrong. Maybe your digital output is set to on instead of off? Or maybe you are using on one of the other pulse widgets (negative pulse)?
It could also be that the resistor isn't making a good connection inside the socket. I know my resistors get a nice layer of oxide on them when they have been sitting in my parts drawer for years.